tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450974167545009080.post3389251306569566157..comments2022-11-17T05:30:40.354-08:00Comments on troubling stars: Being a blessingtroubling starshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05814687479260066692noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450974167545009080.post-45326668282093159602008-04-17T17:58:00.000-07:002008-04-17T17:58:00.000-07:00I love how beautifully you've allowed yourself to ...I love how beautifully you've allowed yourself to be transformed...thank you for your sincere words! Mother's groups have helped me tremendously too...it's a sounding board I look forward to every week. All the stereotypes that come with being a stay-at-home-mom scare me too...once the superficial layers have been peeled back, it's amazing how many of us young moms struggle with the same things, eh? Keep up the lovely posts...I look forward to reading more!ABOUT XIN LEIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06063966563148420877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-450974167545009080.post-54274773262340369932008-04-16T12:36:00.000-07:002008-04-16T12:36:00.000-07:00Your humility and vulnerability in this blog are i...Your humility and vulnerability in this blog are impressive. I have the opposite problem, I really have to try hard to not see the mess, not let it sour my interactions with Tyler when there is so much to do, so much to clean... I often envy the Mary's of this world, like yourself who can just relax and BE, those able to unload, at least momentarily, the burdens of housekeeping and life in order to experience the moment, not let order ruin the best moments that often happen in chaos. My relationship with Tyler has been a continuation of this lesson for me, one of letting go, not just of chores and housework but of the reins which I fool myself into thinking that I hold on life. And while I do hope to work towards a more team approach to the upkeep of our apartment, I have to appreciate that balance that Tyler's perspective brings to my life and to our relationship.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03054390353406950629noreply@blogger.com